NEW GLASGOW, N.S. — If we could only look into the future and predict the outcome as a result of fighting for equal treatment for LGBTQ+ citizens and other minorities.
Of course, it is not possible, and to predict an outcome would certainly be hypothetical.
Humankind, however, are always on the verge of assuming change is only a matter of time. That in itself is positive and of course attainable, providing we keep up the arduous pace toward accomplishing change for a more loving and inclusive society. Time is of the essence. Each person must be involved, and those who are afraid to “come out,” should not be afraid, as that identity is the only one that counts. Seek assistance in this process. Many organizations and individuals are in all our neighbourhoods such as LGBTQ+ groups, sexual health centres, and others are readily available to assist and make it easier to come to terms with sexual orientation or transgender issues.
We are not alone in this process. If difficulties exist within the family unit, friends, schools, business and churches, be assured help is available. As more folks decide to take this most important step, more are involved in the raising of awareness, and pride takes hold. The task is difficult and varies with individuals. Our world is a daunting space where discrimination is rampant.
LGBTQ+ citizens, globally, are systematically assaulted in many ways, by so many with anger and disdain. That is not to say advances have not taken place. Depending on the country, many important strides have come to the forefront to be dealt with in the law of the land. People desperately trying to get away from wars, torture, poverty and other atrocities are reprimanded by authorities for attempting to search for better lives.
The LGBTQ+ refugees and countless others who cannot find happiness, peace, and pure contentment are surely entitled to seek out a better future. If we, in Canada or elsewhere, are in a position to further assist those who are in desperate need, then we will succeed in solving, at least in part, the agonies that exist. We live in a nation where poverty is also a serious issue, but we must share and pay attention to the needs of so many. We cannot do the impossible, however, we must share the responsibility placed before us. We must celebrate our gains, share our fortunes, and set aside our differences. We must learn to listen to the concerns placed before us.
When we learn about the tortures against LGBTQ+ people in countries where being gay is against the law, do we not care and leave people to suffer unbearable consequences? Gays remain in danger, many wishing for a better future. Do we then simply say, “No, you are not welcome here in Canada, because you will be too costly on the purses?” Many are of the opinion that folks should simply remain where they are and not count on assistance from other nations, such as Canada.
I know of a number of people, who share the thought that it is not, and should not, be our concern. Such sad commentary promises only to further divide society. Does it really matter how we react and if we do, will it make a difference? The answer is a resounding “Yes.”
Folks, look at the success stories from our immigrant friends. I came to Canada with my family as immigrants. The welcome was fantastic. Keep it up Canada! We listen to the comments and complaints which are hateful and careless and heartless. Having experienced the loneliness as a teenager, not knowing the English language, and wondering if we would be accepted in this foreign country, we discovered the kindness of Canadians.
Let’s open our minds, hearts, our hospitality, and our concern for those in need. Thank you Canada.
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Gerard Veldhoven is a longtime gay rights activist and resident of Pictou County. Comments and information: [email protected]
